ADVENT DAY 23: Longest Night Service

In this episode of the Church Potluck Advent Calendar, Dale is joined by Rev. Chris Barbieri for a moving and compassionate conversation about the Longest Night Service, sometimes called Blue Christmas or The Darkest Night. Set near the winter solstice, this service creates sacred space for those who carry grief, loss, or heartache during a season often filled with forced cheer and nonstop celebration. Rev. Barbary explains how the Longest Night acknowledges the pain many feel at Christmas—whether from death, illness, fractured relationships, job loss, or memories tied to the season—while still gently holding onto the promise that light will return. Drawing on his experience as a hospital chaplain, he shares a powerful adaptation of the service designed for come-and-go participation, inviting people to name their losses, light candles, and be surrounded by prayer without pressure or performance. This episode offers both pastoral wisdom and practical guidance, reminding listeners that Advent makes room for honesty, tears, and waiting—and that joy, when it comes, is deeper when grief has been named. 

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